Dear Cubby and Cindy,
I’ve belonged to a gym for a while now and since I haven’t seen too many results and I’m super serious about my weight loss now, I decided to get a trainer. The problem with is that he’s really flirty – almost borderline harassing – and I don’t feel comfortable training with him. I’ve asked him a few times to cut it out, but he gets really defensive and asks me why I can’t take joke. Am I right to be annoyed, or should I just relax and concentrate on my workout?