Dear Cubby and Cindy,
I’ve been getting flowers and cards lately from a “secret admirer” and it’s really starting to irritate me. Whoever it is keeps sending things to my office with notes like, “Do you have any idea how beautiful you are?” and “You make me happy every day.” My co-workers think this is sweet, but I’m really annoyed. I HATE surprises and if this is someone I work with, I feel like it’s borderline harassment. What the heck do I do to stop this crap?