Dear Cubby and Cindy,
I'm a bridesmaid in my girlfriend's wedding, and we are planning her shower. She insists on having a co-ed shower, and I think it's a bad idea. First of all, what guys want to go to a shower? None that I know of! And second, what about girls who don't have a guest to invite? It puts undue pressure on everyone going! Can you and the KTU audience convince her this is a bad idea?